Are you like me, in that you like to watch tv or surf the web right up until bedtime? It seems very relaxing to stare at the computer screen and cruise around the internet. Or better yet, to watch mindlessly a tv show that requires nothing more than sitting, relaxing and watching. I confess, I do both of these. What’s the harm in a little relaxation after a long day’s work, which most of us do? If you’re sleeping well, falling asleep easily and waking up refreshed, read no further. If you go through your day with energy and seldom feel like you need a nap, read no further. For those of you who have trouble falling asleep or have disrupted sleep, or awaken during the night and or don’t sleep long enough, this article is for you.

Several studies presented at the recent annual meeting of the American Academy of Sleep Medicine confirm how technology robs our sleep of its vitality. For one thing, technology is seductive. Computers, tvs, gaming, and cell phones lure us into a place of fun much more interesting than going to sleep. Before you know it, hours have gone by and it’s later than you think, and certainly past your bedtime. But you still have to get up at the same time tomorrow. Who can say we don’t enjoy what we’re doing with technology, even though we’re not getting enough sleep!

Perhaps more important than the quantity of sleep that is interrupted is the fact that devices are in themselves stimulating. What’s more fun to an adolescent than texting in bed to keep in touch with your friends or getting to another level on WOW. Or for adults, there’s indulging your alter-ego life fantasies on Second Life. Are these fun things harmful? No, not in themselves, but we have to consider what they’re replacing. In many cases, that is sleep. Because we live in a 24/7 world, where everything is constantly on, this may seem normal. But the body has not evolved to the level of our gaming and tv/cell phone indulgence. Is the trade-off really worth it? Ask yourself in the morning and throughout the day whether how you feel is really worth one more hour of computer time or that great late night tv show.

A further issue of no less importance is how the blue light of computers, cell phones, television, video games and even many alarm clocks affects the brain. In addition to the level of brain stimulation mentioned above, which becomes harder and harder to shut down, blue light directly affects the production and release of melatonin, the master hormone that orchestrates sleep. The supply of this important hormone is readily depleted by the use of blue light technology at the time when it’s needed most when we’re going to sleep. This is not the case for daylight, light bulbs or non-blue light items we may be using before bedtime. As a parent, what conclusions do you draw about the use of technology later at night for your children? Stay tuned for ideas on what to do about this important parenting problem.

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Ever wonder what your child’s thinking about before they fall asleep? Just as we have trouble getting to sleep at times because we can’t get the day off our minds, so do our children. These attempts to solve and finish the day before we fall asleep or these worries about tomorrow can keep children awake just the same as adults. Sleep researchers call these presleep arousal, which means that the brain’s overstimulated and is having a hard time calming down to get down into sleep.

So what can we parents do about that? As masters of the home environment, we have the power to create a peaceful evening that will make calming down much easier for kids so they can get to sleep and sleep well. Here are some tips to help accomplish that:
* Begin dinner as early as possible. Most food, especially heavier meals, needs three hours to digest, and undigested food interferes with getting to sleep and sleeping restfully;
* Consider preparing a few meals on the weekend so school nights are a bit less hectic; most parents don’t feel like cooking after a day’s work;
* Structure homework time (again as early as possible), tv or computer time (recording helps for favorite shows), Down Time (something we all need more of) and bedtime;
* Kids should go to bed at a specific time each night (whenever possible) so the body has regular feedback that it’s time to go to sleep;
* Use the same bedtime routine- bath, book, bed (or whatever you create) to cue the body that it’s time to relax for sleep;
* Remove all electronics from the child’s room 30-60 minutes before it’s time to start the bedtime routine; If there’s a tv or computer in the child’s room, make sure they can’t access it when you’re not in the room;
* Work on getting some down time for them or some together time with you that doesn’t involve electronics;
* Most importantly, you are a model to your child for their bedtime behavior. If you convey a sense of calm, order and peace, they will incorporate that into their own view of the sleep universe.

Most of us live very hectic lives and can barely come up with ways to create down time for ourselves, much less for our very active children. Consider the merits of a peaceful evening for their mental and physical health, as well as for their school performance.

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